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  • Pope Francis, 1936-2025

    Statement of the Most Reverend James F. Checchio
    Bishop of Metuchen


    With heavy hearts the Diocese of Metuchen mourns the passing of His Holiness, Pope Francis.  From the moment of his election as Supreme Pontiff when he took the name Francis, our Holy Father has emphasized the mercy of God, embracing in his Petrine ministry the poor, the migrant, the marginalized and all those broken by this world’s problems and concerns. We entrust his noble soul to the hands of our Blessed Mother to accompany him to our Father's house.  In this Jubilee year in which Pope Francis called us to be Pilgrims of Hope, he has now made the ultimate pilgrimage to the embrace of our loving God.

    Statement of Msgr. Benwell
    Sisters and brothers in the Risen Christ: Easter Sunday is our great celebration of hope.  Configured to Christ risen from the dead, all things are possible for us. Even humanity's greatest enemy—death—has been conquered.  

    The sacred author of the Book of Ecclesiastes wrote, "There is an appointed time for everything under the heavens ... a time to be born and a time to die ... a time to weep and a time to laugh" (3:1-2, 4). Most often, the meaning of that "appointed time" is a mystery. Perhaps not so with the death of our Holy Father, Pope Francis. The "Pope of Mercy," who made hope the theme of this Jubilee Year, died in the Octave of Easter, between Easter Sunday and Divine Mercy Sunday.

    No doubt summoning up all the strength left in him, Pope Francis gave us a gift just hours before his death: a final blessing from the loggia of St. Peter's Basilica and a final wave as he was driven through St. Peter's Square.  Might I suggest that over the next few weeks we honor with gratitude this Vicar of Christ and Successor of St. Peter by being open to ways we can practice little (and big) acts of mercy and hope toward our families, friends and people we don't even know: individuals and groups who are in need?

    Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him.  May be rest in peace. Amen.
  • The Proper Preservation of Cremated Remains

    In recent weeks, the Vatican has released two documents that have raised questions among the faithful. Both were issued by the Dicastery for the Doctrine of the Faith with the approval of Pope Francis. The first, explained below, concerns the preservation of cremated remains.

    The Dicastery’s Note repeats the Church’s long-held prohibition against scattering ashes of the deceased in nature or elsewhere. There are multiple reasons for the exclusion of this practice. Ashes retain a connection to a real person who was individually created in God’s own image (Gn 1:26-27) and thus call for an attitude of “sacred respect.” Moreover, the retention of ashes in a suitably permanent place ensures that the departed will not be “forgotten” and thereby not “excluded from the prayers and remembrance of their family or the Christian community.” For this reason, the Church strongly retains the prescription that “ashes must be kept in a sacred space, such as a cemetery, or in an area dedicated to this purpose” by the Church.

    The Note then addresses two other practices: the commingling and preservation of ashes of several deceased persons and the preservation of a portion of a deceased’s ashes by family.

    The ashes of several persons can be preserved in a defined and permanent sacred place, e.g., a cemetery, provided the basic details of each person are indicated on the urn. Again, this is to guarantee that each person can be remembered in prayer.

    Finally, with the permission of the diocesan bishop, family can retain a portion of a departed’s ashes provided they are reserved in a respectful place of significance to the deceased person and the greater part of the ashes rest in a sacred place.

  • Letters from Msgr. Benwell to the Parish

    • Message from Msgr. Benwell on the Proper Preservation of Cremains - January 16, 2024
    • Mass and Inclement Weather/Illness - January 4, 2023
    • An Appeal from Msgr. Benwell regarding the parish roofs- April 23, 2023
    • An Invitation from Msgr. to the Parish October 25, 2021: Christ the King
    • Letter to Parish December 20, 2021
    • Letter to the Parish September 9, 2021: Emergency Disaster Relief Fund
    • Letter to Parish August 19, 2021
    • Letter to the Parish June 10, 2021 (Mission Cooperative Plan)
    • Letter to the Parish May 28, 2021
    • Letter to the Parish May 19, 2021
    • Letter to Parish December 23, 2020: The Year of St. Joseph
    • Letter to the Parish November 3, 2020
    • Letter to Parish September 24, 2020
    • Letters to Parish September 8, 2020
    • Letter to Parish June 16, 2020
    • Letter to Parish June 7, 2020
    • Letter to Parish May 18, 2020
    • Letter to Parish April 28, 2020
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