Ave, Maria, gratia plena, Dominus tecum, benedicta tu in mulieribus et benedictus fructus ventris tui, Iesus. Sancta Maria, mater Dei, ora pro nobis peccatoribus, nunc et hora mortis nostrae. Amen.

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August 3, 2008 - Eighteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time


But they said to him, "Five loaves and two fish are all we have here." Then he said, "Bring them to me," and he ordered the crowds to sit down on the grass. Taking the five loaves and the two fish, and looking up to heaven, he said the blessing, broke the loaves, and gave them to the disciples, who in turn gave them to the crowds. - Mt 14:17-19

BE A BLOOD DONOR - AUGUST 10 - FIREMAN'S EXEMPT HALL
The Covenant Committee has been asked to run another blood drive during the summer since there is a bigger shortage than ever.  Therefore, we picked August 10.   It will be held as usual in the Firemen’s Exempt Hall from 8:00 a.m. – 1:30 p.m.   Whole blood, platelets and red cells will be drawn.  Please take a little time and come out and donate.  May God bless you for sharing your gift of life with those in need!


BAPTISMS
The parish family of St. Mary’s joyfully welcomes the following children baptized into Christ last Sunday:

Brody Anthony Montesclaros, parents; Mel & Maria

Logan Pimentel, parents; Pier & Ana

Congratulations and God’s blessings to all!

RELIGIOUS EDUCATION NEWS

Are you interested in strengthening your relationship with God?  Sharing your faith with the children of St. Mary’s is a challenging and fun way to deepen your personal faith.  Jesus tells us “to become like little children” to better follow him on our life journey.  What better way is there to accomplish this than to witness the joy on a child’s face as he learns to pray, or listen to an adolescent as he sifts through the teachings of the Gospel and chooses to make good moral choices.  We are called to share our faith with others.  If you are interested in learning more about how you can do this with children, please call Pat Dorsi  @ 908-756-0038.


PILGRIMAGE - WASHINGTON
The Diocesan Pilgrimage to the Basilica of the National Shrine in Washington will take place on Saturday, October 18th.  Our parish will share a bus with Blessed Sacrament in Martinsville and St. Elizabeth in Far Hills. 

Save this date and join us as we celebrate this year of Prayer for Vocations.


PARISH PICNIC - SAVE THE DATE
Please save the date for St. Mary's-Stony Hill picnic to be held on Sunday, September 28th.  Rain date is October 5th. 


St. Vincent de Paul School – Open House

St. Vincent de Paul School, Stirling, cordially invites Parents and Students to visit on Thursday, August 7th from 10:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m.    Join us in the Library to learn about our flexible Pre K program, our full day Kindergarten and grades 1 - 8.  While visiting, children can enjoy story time and crafts.  Refreshments will be served.   For more information call 908-647-0421.  


MENS PRAYER BREAKFAST – KOINONIA ACADEMY J
oin us on Saturday, August 23 for breakfast from 8:00am – 9:30am @ Koinonia Academy, in Plainfield.  Fr. Philip Merdinger, founder of Brotherhood of Hope will be our special guest.  For information call Joe Burke @ 908-771-0018.


FROM THE PASTOR'S DESK: The Pope vs. The Pill

FORTY years ago last week, Pope Paul VI provoked the greatest uproar against a papal edict in the long history of the Roman Catholic Church when he reiterated the church’s ban on artificial birth control by issuing the encyclical “Humanae Vitae.” At the time, commentators predicted that not only would the teaching collapse under its own weight, but it might well bring the “monarchical papacy” down with it.  

Those forecasts badly underestimated the capacity of the Catholic Church to resist change and to stand its ground. Down the centuries, Catholics have frequently groused about papal rulings. Usually they channeled that dissent into blithe disobedience, though occasionally a Roman mob would run the Successor of Peter out of town on a rail just to make a point. In 1848, Pope Pius IX was driven into exile by Romans incensed at his refusal to embrace Italy’s unification.  

Never before July 25, 1968, however, had opposition been so immediate, so public and so widespread. World-famous theologians called press conferences to rebut the pope’s reasoning. Conferences of Catholic bishops issued statements that all but licensed churchgoers to ignore the encyclical. Pastors openly criticized “Humanae Vitae” from the pulpit.  

In a nutshell, “Humanae Vitae” held that the twin functions of marriage — to foster love between the partners and to be open to children — are so closely related as to be inseparable. In practice, that meant a resounding no to the pill.  

The encyclical quickly became seen, both in the secular world and in liberal Catholic circles, as the papacy’s Waterloo. It was so out of sync with the hopes and desires of the Catholic rank and file that it simply could not stand.  

And in some ways, it didn’t. Today polls show that Catholics, at least in the West, dissent from the teaching on birth control, often by majorities exceeding 80 percent. But at the official level, Catholicism’s commitment to “Humanae Vitae” is more solid than ever.  

During his almost 27-year papacy, John Paul II provided a deeper theoretical basis for traditional Catholic sexual morality through his “Theology of the Body.” In brief, the late pope’s argument was that human sexuality is an image of the creative love among the three Persons of the Trinity, as well as God’s love for humanity. Birth control “changes the language” of sexuality, because it prevents life-giving love.  

That’s a claim many Catholics might dispute, but the reading groups and seminars devoted to contemplating John Paul’s “Theology of the Body” mean that Catholics disposed to defend the church’s teaching now have a more formidable set of resources than they did when Paul VI wrote “Humanae Vitae.”   

“In addition, three decades of bishops’ appointments by John Paull  and Benedict XVI, both unambiguously committed to “Humanae Vitae,” mean that senior leaders in Catholicism these days are far less inclined than they were in 1968 to distance themselves from the ban on birth control, or to soft-pedal it. A striking number of Catholic bishops have recently brought out documents of their own defending “Humanae Vitae.”  

Advocates of the encyclical draw assurance from the declining fertility rates across the developed world, especially in Europe. No country in Europe has a fertility rate above 2.1, the number of children each woman needs to have by the end of her child-bearing years to keep a population stable. Even with increasing immigration, Europe is projected to suffer a population loss in the 21st century that will rival the impact of the Black Death, leading some to talk about the continent’s “demographic suicide”.  

Not coincidentally, Europe is also the most secular region of the world, where the use of artificial contraception is utterly unproblematic. Among those committed to Catholic teaching, the obvious question becomes: What more clear proof of the folly of separating sex and child-bearing could one want?  

So the future of “Humanae Vitae” as the teaching of the Catholic Church seems secure, even if it will also continue to be the most widely flouted injunction of the church at the level of practice. The encyclical’s surprising resilience is a reminder that forecasting the Catholic future in moments of crisis is always a dangerous enterprise — a point with relevance to a more recent Catholic predicament. Many critics believe that the church has not yet responded adequately to the recent sex-abuse scandals, leading to predictions that the church will “have to” become more accountable, more participatory and more democratic.  

While those steps may appear inevitable today, it seemed unthinkable to many observers 40 years ago that “Humanae Vitae” would still be in vigor well into the 21st century. Catholicism can and does change, but trying to guess how and when is almost always a fool’s errand.    

John L. Allen Jr. is the senior correspondent for The National Catholic Reporter and the author of “The Rise of Benedict XVI.” Article was published in the New York Times. July 27th 2008

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